california: The husband is in california and the wife is in PA. Both want a divorce as they've been separated for over 20 years. The wife is unable to travel. They have only an adult son and no assets.|||鈽尖樇鈽?br> It can be done using a certified mediator. Check the Yellow Pages or do a web search.|||www.legalzoom.com You pay a small fee for paperwork etc but it's essentially a do it yourself legal aid organization.|||The only cheap thing in Cali is Mexican food.|||KILL IT|||The one in Ca. can file the papers themselves at the court house. I think they will be able to fax you the papers and sign them if you are not contesting the settlement. Call the family court in the correct county.|||I found this article that has some good pointers about divorce and finance, take a look, I hope it helps. It's not long. http://www.ehow.com/how_4789374_financia鈥?/a>|||You can have do it yourself Divorce. Its very cheap!